Daddy Longlegs (2009)

While just as stressful as later films by the Safdie Brothers like Good Time and Uncut Gems, their first major indie feature, Daddy Longlegs (2009) is also gentler in a way. It focuses on a dad played by their future co-writer and editor Ronald Bronstein (also a director of the indie Frownland) and his performance is so great, radiating a distinct New York obnoxiousness muddled with traces of charm. The film just observes the calamity as he takes his two sons for a fortnight, running around with them from school, indulging in games and play. Yet he also seems to carry on with his chaotic life, working odd hours as a projectonist, not thinking twice about going out while his sons are asleep and picking someone up in a bar, and then in what I thought was the funniest sequence, crashing that one night’s stand’s trip up-state with their boyfriend so he can have a day trip with his kids free of charge. Definitely a film cut from the cloth of Cassavetes. Also stars Eleonore Hendricks as the dad’s girlfriend, Leah Singer as the ex-wife and mother (their actual mother along with a cameo from the boys’ actual dad, Lee Ranaldo from Sonic Youth), and even a cameo from Abel Ferrara, the scuzzball auteur of Bad Lieutenant and King Of New York, as a street mugger. There are stressful scenes of Ronald Bronstein’s character messing up or getting aggressive towards other adults, but in the end, there is empathy for such a loser, and from the Safdies’ opening dedication to their own Dad, seems to be borne from experience and understanding. Recommended.